Parenting Through Connection with Megan
Welcome to “Parenting Through Connection” with Megan Lachance, a podcast where we dive into the real struggles and complexities of parenting with honesty, hope, and practical strategies. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of raising kids while juggling life’s demands, you're not alone.
Each episode explores both sides of the parenting journey: managing stress and societal expectations, and building strong, meaningful relationships with your children. We’ll talk about the tough stuff; the things people don’t want to talk about or try to hide yet everyone experiences, the moments of feeling stuck and the times when parenting doesn’t feel like the dream you imagined…the ‘hidden’ parts of parenting that results in yelling, anger & sometimes even rage. Through relatable stories, mini coaching sessions, and actionable tips, Megan will help you break through the barriers that keep you feeling stuck, offering support and encouragement to help you find balance.
Parenting doesn’t have to be a daily struggle. Let’s normalize the challenges, let go of shame, and discover ways to enjoy the journey while strengthening your connection with your kids. So tune into “Parenting Through Connection” for a dose of hope, real talk, and the support you need to thrive as a parent.
Parenting Through Connection with Megan
Episode 28: From Compliance to Cooperation: The Real Reason Your Child Won't Listen
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Maybe you’re validating feelings, staying calm, and offering choices, but underneath it all, you’re still hoping your child will simply listen and cooperate right away. In this episode of Parenting Through Connection, I’m exploring something that keeps parents stuck: using parenting tools with the same old goal of compliance. We’ll unpack the difference between parenting through control versus parenting through connection and how shifting the power dynamic can create more trust, cooperation, and connection.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why changing your parenting language doesn’t always change the relationship dynamic
- The difference between “power over” parenting, “power under” parenting, and “power with” parenting
- How fear and old patterns can pull us back into authoritarian or permissive parenting
- Why boundaries and connection can exist together
- The importance of building long-term influence with your child through “power with” parenting
- Questions to ask yourself to parent more intentionally and in alignment with your values
This episode is an invitation to notice what’s underneath the parenting tools you’re using. Not with judgment, but with compassion. If this conversation resonates with you and you’re looking for deeper support, my Rooted in the Middle parenting program is designed to help you define your parenting values and create a roadmap toward the relationship you want with your child. You don’t have to do this alone.
Connect with Megan:
Website: https://www.parentingthroughconnection.ca/
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/parentingwithmegan
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/parentingwithmegan
Rooted in the Middle program: https://www.parentingthroughconnection.ca/rooted-in-the-middle
1:1 Coaching: https://www.parentingthroughconnection.ca/coaching
